No Rain on My Parade





I am finding that the more i gear my life towards more positive not only for myself but for all of the people around me, the more individuals or situations come to deter me from being positive.  For the last few months this has been a real battle for me and I cannot understand why chaos and unhappiness has been more persistent now in my life.

I realized today with dealing with daily challenges, that I is so easy to be miserable, unhappy, and try to destroy someone else's happiness.  Your would think that I would be the opposite but is not at realized that some people are unhappy with themselves. The unhappiness could be from a relationship, finances, low self esteem, and the fact that despite what they toss my way, I still strive to find the positive out of the situation.  Me being positive and uplifting can possibly brightens someone's day.  Being unhappy is a choice.. Continuing to be positive is a choice I am happy to make.



I have to admit the energy of these unhappy people drains me at times but the wonderful thing is that is is not long lived.  A person can only do or control you if you allow them to.  It is all about taking power of your situation and life. I am a firm believer that there is a positive lesson that can be learned from any given situation.  In this case, I am learning that despite what is going on around me, it is important to keep the positive energy/thoughts flowing.  Do not allow negativity to destroy on your happiness.  You never know what a person is going through that is causing them to say or do the things that they do in the midst of their unhappiness and to not take it personally.

I am learning also that when chaotic unhappiness peeks its big eyes on my parade, change is coming. You see it is all about the personal evolutionary growth which is always positive.  Do not let someone rain on your positive parade.







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